can i just bitch?

yes at 1:49 am. why do FILIPINOS, when they see you, always say: "don't be offended but wow you've gained a lot of weight!" why do we always feel the need to point out the negative everytime we see each other? why can't we just shut the fuck up. how does the saying go? IF YOU HAVE NOTHING GOOD TO SAY, DON'T SAY IT AT ALL. its funny, the whole time i was growing up i never understood what crab mentality means. well here it is in all its glory. i saw a picture of my friend and she looked gorgeous in it, in fact, she was the prettiest among the girls in the picture. and this one hater bitch comments: "you look pregnant in this pic" what the fuck! pardon moi francais but shit, if we are going to tear each other down by making snide comments about looking pregnant...this is why a lot of filipino women do not have the confidence and self esteem that american women have. i'm not generalizing, i've seen this happen lots of times aarrrggghhh --- (teresa is taking deep breaths...whoooooozzzzaaaa. oooohhhhhmmmmmm). anyway, my point is, if you are going to start your sentence with: "don't be offended but..." then i suggest thinking twice about what you are going to say. if you think that there is a slight chance that you would offend someone by your comment, shut your trap. whatever happened to just saying "hi, hello, how are you? its been a long time." there. i've said my piece.